Friday, October 07, 2005

October 7th Update

It's about 2 PM and Simi just arrived in the regular cardiac care hospital unit. That means that he is out of the cardiac intensive care unit and in the regular ward.

Simi's lovin' the new unit. He's one of the lucky few who has his own room (it was purely luck that he got his own room!) and there is a vcr in the room and a library of tapes down the hall. There are tons of books and a playroom down the hall when he's ready.

Right now he's thrilled because he gets to have all the chicken noodle soup he wants.

Simi's pain meds now are Tylenol. Incredible that one day after surgery and all he needs is Tylenol.

He went for a walk this morning (he wanted to!), but it was just a litle walk. I think it hurt him so he stopped.

On the flip side, we're dealing with some emotional stuff. Simi's sad and scared (his words). Last night, he refused to go to sleep because he was afraid that they'd hurt him again. And every time someone comes near him to do something, like to pull a line or take an x-ray, it's a really big deal. He "shut down" emotionally last night and is just now starting to perk up a bit. But every time something medical happens - even the least little bit of pain - it's a big deal for him and takes him right back to shutting down again. As a parent, it's really painful to watch. He's a part of me. Seeing him shut-down emotionally cuts right into my core being. But we'll get through this.

Asher's doing great with Grandma and Grandpa Ruben. They're doting on him and spoiling him and he's just lovin' it.

Thanks for all your thoughts and support. It means the world to us. We'll update again soon.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hey Liz & Raj
I just now read your blog updates. I am so glad and relieved that the surgery went off well for Simi. Its heart-wrenching to see your child suffer through pain. Hope he overcomes it and the fear associated with it.

Keeping you all in mind and praying for a speedy recovery for Simi. Glad to know that Asher is doing well with grandparents.

Take care.

Ravi