A Healthy Dose of Asher

Now that we're back at home and have gotten a bit of sleep, we can begin to tell you a bit of how Simi spent his first few post-hospital days...

Understandably so, Simi was really sad while in the hospital. Once he was released, he and Asher got to pal around together again. Asher is such a two-year-old goofball that it's hard for anyone to be sad while being around him. Plus, Simi and Asher are genuinely close, so it helped Simi a lot to be with Asher.

After just a day or so, our challenge as parents was to keep Simi and Asher from hurting Simi. Simi kept forgetting that his chest was just recently cracked open and we'd regularly see the two of them begin to wrestle or hug or do something on the physical side. And with the Boston weather as dreary as it was, we were cooped up in the apartment. Being cooped up in the apartment made it more difficult for us as parents to keep the two of them from hurting Simi.

We did a lot of sticker work (thanks, Peter and Karen, for bringing the 10,000+ stickers. I think we used them all!) We did a lot of coloring work (thanks, Trettle family, for the crayola markers. They were fun! We used them up too!) And we saw a lot of matinee movies. We went to the aquarium so often that we became members. At the aquarium, we could strap the boys in the stroller and keep them calm and contained - perfect! We could also sit in the IMAX theater and watch really cool 3D movies. (OK, only Simi thought they were really cool; Asher was terrified.) We also saw the new Wallace and Grummit animated movie. Asher got over his fear of movies while watching that one.

How's Simi doing now? Our challenge to keep Simi calm and safe is even more difficult now. Rest and regular Motrin/Tylenol doses help Simi routinely forget that his chest just got cracked open, and it's way too enticing to engage the playful Asher in a game of wrestling. Thankfully, the weather in NC is MUCH nicer than we had in Boston. We've been taking them out in the double jogger (strapped down and sitting - perfect!) for long walks since we've been home. It'll be easier to keep Simi calm once Asher returns to daycare on Monday. Then we'll probably return to doing more table work - painting, crayons, puzzles, reading, etc.

The cardiologist mentioned that Simi would be more tired than normal these first few weeks. We've noticed only the opposite. He seems to have a lot more energy now than he ever has. If this is more tired, then we're really in trouble when he gets less tired. That's good, right?

We had hoped that now that we're home and they're sleeping in separate bedrooms, that perhaps they'd sleep longer in the morning. They must have developed some sort of sibling radar because this morning Asher awoke at about 5:30 AM and Simi awoke about 10 minutes later. What's up with that?

A lot of folks have asked to see post-operative photos of Simi. Maybe in a couple of years. Seriously. Raj took a lot of photos during the trip and I (Liz) had (have?) plans to make him a photo book of the experience. We viewed the photos once while in Boston and they're so difficult to view that I bawled like a baby through the entire slide show. In other words, I think it's going to take a while before we can view them again - nevermind post one.

Alright, from now, I think the posts are going to be a lot happier. Thanks again for all your support, good wishes, cards and prayers. We appreciate every single one of them.